First Quarter 2026: The Needle Has Moved
A reflective review of the first quarter of 2026, covering my move to GPS, Hong Kong admission, writing plans, website fixes, and how the first three months in my new career have actually gone....
Milestones and Consistency
A busy few days brought a string of moments — from alumni reconnections and feral children on the beach, to my first Hong Kong courtroom appearance and my kids’ piano recital. Reflections on milestones, visibility, and why showing up matters more than perfection....
Transition: Flexibility, New Horizons, and Continuous Learning
Adjusting to a new routine brings fresh perspectives. A few reflections from the trenches on the 'WFH vs RTO' debate, learning new skills as an experienced lawyer, and why quiet consistency is the engine behind all growth....
February Reflections: One Year Later and Building Momentum
One year after being made redundant, February marks a distinct shift from "messy" to "momentum." Reflections on the progress of Rupen 2.0, the joy of a Hong Kong CNY, and the ongoing battle with digital habits....
From Pond to Ocean: Finding the Legal Signal at Consensus HK
Stepping into Consensus HK with 15,000 attendees was a shock to the system. From the rise of Real World Assets (RWA) to overcoming networking jitters, here are my key takeaways on finding commercial value—and regulatory clarity—amidst the Web3 noise....
Return to the Arena: Trust, Learning and Growth
After a year away, I’m returning to the arena. This post explores the learning again, the shift to individual accountability, and field notes on the tech stack driving "Rupen 2.0."...
January 2026: The Messy Start of Rupen 2.0
January 2026 marks the official start of "Rupen 2.0." It feels like a mess, but the evidence says otherwise: two new clients, a 15-year loop closed in HK, and a total digital revamp. Here are my raw reflections on the anxiety, the freedom, and the discipline of starting over....
Managing the Reality of Career Change
Week two of my new career and the doubts are creeping in. I’m learning that resilience is about recognising the wobble and doing the work anyway....
Switching Off: How Rest Prevents Burnout and Boosts Performance
This Christmas, I switched off completely. But Christmas 2024 was different—multiple deals closing, constant emails, mentally still in the office. Here’s what I learned: rest isn’t a luxury, it’s a performance multiplier. Vacations increase performance by 80%....
2025: Redundancy to Relevance
Made redundant in February 2025, I spent nine months rebuilding my identity and finding relevance again. Here’s what that journey taught me about freedom, vulnerability, and direction....
The Missed Risk In My First Consulting Gig: My Own Boundaries
I missed a critical risk in my first consulting gig: my own lack of boundaries. How free work taught me why scope matters more than contracts....
November Reflections: Lessons in Momentum, Mistakes and Not Standing Still
November was a month of contrast. From the tragedy in Tai Po to the quiet momentum of a consulting soft launch, here is what I learned about moving forward, making mistakes, and why being employed isn’t the same as having momentum....
Still Adjusting: Baby Steps in Career Transition and the Messy Middle
After redundancy in February, I’m still adjusting to life without structure. My loneliness post resonated widely. I’ve tried productivity theories, but distractions persist. Instead, I’m embracing baby steps and learning through trial and error. The messy middle is OK. What’s worked for you?...
Career Transition and Loneliness: An Honest Reflection
I’ve been out of work and at home for close to a year now. During the day I’m often at home and on my own, and man it can get lonely at times. I didn’t realise how mentally important that daily social connection actually is....
October: Job Hunt, Identity, and Balance
October was meant to be about job hunting. It turned into a month of questioning what I’m building, who I want to work with, and giving myself permission to slow down....